The c0urt ask me to P’ay for Child supp0rt for my s0n and they are now telling me another rubbish that i will be pay!ng Wife Supp0rt of 20k per month too.
Atanda, How can the c0urt ask me to be pay!ng someone who is an adult with two hands and two legs that she can use to w0rk and take care of her self.
Atanda, the Judge is b!ased, i dey susp£ct am
I want to Su£ the C0urt and the judge
Pls how do i go about it
ANS
Oga, pls calm down
Oga, biko wetuo obi
Oga, Ejo sir, E farable, E ni suru
Oga, don Allah a kwantar da hankali
You need to understand that the Law is not partial and judgment are not made to favour one person over the other.
There are many things taking into consideration before they c0urt passes judg£ment
This thing called Statutory Marriage ( wey ona dey call c0urt wedding) na to pr0tect the interest of b0th parties for marriage.
So you need to think well before you do am as a man.
You can’t marry a woman L£gally and think u can trash her anyhow just like that the way our fore fathers were treating w0men.
It does not w0rk that way anymore sir, you need to wake up incase you are still sleeping.
There are few situations where the c0urt can ask you to pay for spousal supp0rt, called maintenance
Atanda will highlight them for you carefully so you will understand
1. Oga, you can’t marry a woman L£gally and ask her to become a full house wife agai’nst her wish then during div0rce you now expect her to kpai of hunger and p0verty.
No ooo, na u say make she no w0rk, so definitely you go continue to take care of her until she remarry or until the c0urt pleases.
2. If your wife has sustained serious m£dical !njuries maybe during Childbirth or anything and she no go fit w0rk again or you beat her so tey she come w0und and she no go fit get much strength to w0rk again.
Oga, you go continue to dey take care of her until she remarry or until the c0urt pleases.
3. In situations wey be say you be highly respected individual in the society, you be odogwu 1 of the Gadagada kingdom
You won’t expect your wife to start doing dirty j0bs just because u div0rce her na.
C0urt go ask you to set her up f!nancially or make u dey pay her dey go until she see an0ther man Like Atanda Marry
Once you understand this
You will see that the c0urt or the judge are not b!ased in their judgement.
If you are not satisfied with the judgement, you can appeal
But you can’t su£ the Judge or the C0urt
Thank you sir and this is wake up call to every young single lady out there
You can see how the law pr0tected dis man’s wife.
Na because she marry under the Act ( she do c0urt wedding or she marry for church wey dey licenced)
So if you want this kind pr0tection too
No let any guy bobo you ooo, tell am say you want c0urt marriage
Simple as ABC
Ignorance of the law is not an excuse